We all were born with an undomesticated wild lover as our twin, which at birth was thrown out the window and banished far out into the wild edge of existence. If you would ask your mother or father of this wild twin, they would for certain, and with sincere truth, tell you that they know nothing of the sort. They do that so to protect themselves from their own pain of banishing this part of you.
Cultivating your authentic expression is a process of growing into wholeness. "Wisdom traditions worldwide say there's no greater blessing than to live the life of your soul, the source of your deepest personal fulfillment, your greatest service to others.” – Bill Plotkin, Eco-depth psychologist